Well, I was cuddling in her arms and she told with her teary eyes "Vineet, I am confused...I am confused that how will I handle this. It will hurt you, you will be in rage of doing something which will hurt you. I can't see you in pain". I turned back and did not let my tears drop down. She hold me from back. I turned and told her "Those who loves, never hurt their soulmate". I then just stepped out of her room at 5:30 am.
For all thos who have failed to marry the girl they love....
It's not like the one who broke your heart is heartless, it's not like she never reciprocate the feelings of love, it's not like she does not hold emotions for you, its not like she...... She may be having her own concerns, her own reasons. She may be in a dilemma, confusion and whatever you want to say or feel. Reality is not what it seems to be, nor is it otherwise. There are always two ways to perceive the happenings around. This time, go for the positive one.
A girl who may be worried about parental disapproval or societal disapproval isn't portraying cowardice - well, not all all. Try to understand her concerns and you will feel that it's always justified - some way or the other. A young woman's concerns are weighed by many factors - her love for her family which took care of all her needs since childhood, is very deep.She is going to leave this family after marriage and therefore, she undergoes a lot of emotional turbulence deciding about her life partner. Now, you may call her "ultra-conservative"; there may be a caste issue or a parental opposition involved, which is common in our society. In the Indian society, it's very difficult for a girl to go against her family for someone whom she has known just for a year or two or say, five years. The ratio is still less than the time she has spent with her parent or siblings. It is possible that she may be in love with someone else, accept that gracefully.
Guys, please remember that when it comes to decision making, girls outgo boys. Every action of a girl is a well-thought out. Thus, do not be harsh on a young woman, just because your love for her was not accepted. She might respect your emotions, but considering above factors she just might disapprove for a relationship with you. Understand, that she never rejected you or your love she has simply distanced herself falling in love with you for reasons beyond her control. Come on, we all have a love story of our own and it's just that some of us are lucky enough and some of us are not. And lastly, " Those who love, never hurt their soulmates".
“I wish I was either in your arms full of faith, or that a Thunder bolt would strike me.”
For all thos who have failed to marry the girl they love....
It's not like the one who broke your heart is heartless, it's not like she never reciprocate the feelings of love, it's not like she does not hold emotions for you, its not like she...... She may be having her own concerns, her own reasons. She may be in a dilemma, confusion and whatever you want to say or feel. Reality is not what it seems to be, nor is it otherwise. There are always two ways to perceive the happenings around. This time, go for the positive one.
A girl who may be worried about parental disapproval or societal disapproval isn't portraying cowardice - well, not all all. Try to understand her concerns and you will feel that it's always justified - some way or the other. A young woman's concerns are weighed by many factors - her love for her family which took care of all her needs since childhood, is very deep.She is going to leave this family after marriage and therefore, she undergoes a lot of emotional turbulence deciding about her life partner. Now, you may call her "ultra-conservative"; there may be a caste issue or a parental opposition involved, which is common in our society. In the Indian society, it's very difficult for a girl to go against her family for someone whom she has known just for a year or two or say, five years. The ratio is still less than the time she has spent with her parent or siblings. It is possible that she may be in love with someone else, accept that gracefully.
Guys, please remember that when it comes to decision making, girls outgo boys. Every action of a girl is a well-thought out. Thus, do not be harsh on a young woman, just because your love for her was not accepted. She might respect your emotions, but considering above factors she just might disapprove for a relationship with you. Understand, that she never rejected you or your love she has simply distanced herself falling in love with you for reasons beyond her control. Come on, we all have a love story of our own and it's just that some of us are lucky enough and some of us are not. And lastly, " Those who love, never hurt their soulmates".
“I wish I was either in your arms full of faith, or that a Thunder bolt would strike me.”
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